Happy Caveman looking for lass

Bouts of inspiration come and go, and now that the day is safely behind us, I think I can now talk about the topic without incurring rage or looks for guys and gals saying WTF is this guy talking about since sanity has retured.

Disclaimer: I have learnt this one from Dennis Assimwe who always adds one when he is writing something controversial. First of I am a typical old fashioned Muganda man, with Neanderthal & Ramapithecus thinking (George of the Jungle and Tarzan), but with enough tough of modernity to mean that I can fit within society. I am a geek (read about Porkys) not a jock, so my ideas may be more way out there but may work for you.

Also I have been married for 6 years, but me and the pretty lady have been hooked up for more than 12 years, so we have grown on each other, more like vines on a support.

Why Valentines’ day and why do you need to honor it in your own way. It is actually the pressure that the now connected society is putting upon us, all the way from shows like the Bachelor, Bachelorette, Bachelor Pad, Jersey Housewives where the rich set the pace and define what relationships should be.

My take is that while you need to do something spectacular once in a while which you can talk about and keep reminiscing for some time to come. While flowers etc are being delivered to all, do the same one year and try something different the next. Make her feel like Cinderella at the ball, let her friends talk about it, show her that she is on a pedestal ….

Do it on her birthday too, make her the envy of her workmates etc, which will make the day to day stuff easier, but the million dollar note is “Do not break the bank trying to do it”. Save up for it splurge a little, live a little, but remember whatever u do, you need to do better the next year

I did my Valentine’s jig on Saturday (4 days before the Dday) so I was under no pressure on the day itself, we are both in the rat race …

Bottom line, be creative, show her you love her and are willing to go the extra mile, stand out from the rest that is why bad boys, pirates, bandits, and the cave men stand out … and ladies take all that u get in your stride and try to enjoy whatever we are doing for you